Many people think trauma only applies to extreme situations like death or violence. However, as Stephen Joseph explains, a traumatic event is anything that tears at the psychological skin that protects us, leaving us emotionally wounded. Trauma is an event that leaves us exposed and causes a deep sense of loss; it causes us to grieve.
Any big transition that takes us away from our routine or challenges our core beliefs about how life should be is traumatic and can trigger grief. This can include loss of life, health, love and even a loss of normalcy or expectation. Understanding this can help us to recognize our trauma and grief and be better able to process and heal.
Most of us are familiar with the idea of Post-Traumatic Stress as a reaction to trauma, but what about Post-Traumatic Growth? This exciting new field of research is based on the idea that painful circumstances offer us the opportunity to change and grow in ways we otherwise could not. This is more than resiliency. Beyond just bouncing back to baseline, traumatic events can be a launching pad to a life with more depth, meaning, fulfillment and success.
Growth from trauma is not guaranteed and it’s not an automatic process. It can be easy to get stuck in our grief and pain if we don’t learn how to heal. Luckily, there are concrete steps you can take to facilitate this process and turn your trauma into growth.
And I can help.